sqlalchemy/orm, sqlalchemy/event, sqlalchemy/testing

to get all flake8 passing

recycles the connection pool when a "disconnect" condition is detected;
instead of discarding the pool and explicitly closing out connections,
the pool is retained and a "generational" timestamp is updated to
reflect the current time, thereby causing all existing connections
to be recycled when they are next checked out.   This greatly simplifies
the recycle process, removes the need for "waking up" connect attempts
waiting on the old pool and eliminates the race condition that many
immediately-discarded "pool" objects could be created during the
recycle operation. fixes #2985

connection to be available, such that for a connection pool
with no timeout specified, it will every half a second break out of
the wait to check for the so-called "abort" flag, which allows the
waiter to break out in case the whole connection pool was dumped;
normally the waiter should break out due to a notify_all() but it's
possible this notify_all() is missed in very slim cases.
This is an extension of logic first introduced in 0.8.0, and the
issue has only been observed occasionally in stress tests.