N occurrences of a parameterized string.   This allows parameterized
warnings that can refer to their arguments to be delivered a fixed
number of times until allowing Python warning filters to squelch them,
and prevents memory from growing unbounded within Python's
warning registries.
fixes #3178

sqlalchemy/orm, sqlalchemy/event, sqlalchemy/testing

to get all flake8 passing

with @_legacy_signature, will inspect incoming listener functions
to see if they match an older signature, will wrap into a newer sig
- add an event listen argument named=True, will send all args as
kw args so that event listeners can be written with **kw, any combination
of names
- add a doc system to events that writes out the various calling styles
for a given event, produces deprecation messages automatically.
a little concerned that it's a bit verbose but will look at it up
on RTD for awhile to get a feel.
- change the calling signature for bulk update/delete events - we have
the BulkUD object right there, and there's at least six or seven things
people might want to see, so just send the whole BulkUD in
[ticket:2775]

- went through examples/ and cleaned out excess list() calls