INSERT, UPDATE, and DELETE statements to both specify their own
WITH clause, as well as for these statements themselves to be
CTE expressions when they include a RETURNING clause.
fixes #2551

insert-default holding columns not otherwise included in the SET
clause (such as primary key cols) to get rendered into the RETURNING
even though this is an UPDATE.

- Major fixes to the :paramref:`.Mapper.eager_defaults` flag, this
flag would not be honored correctly in the case that multiple
UPDATE statements were to be emitted, either as part of a flush
or a bulk update operation.  Additionally, RETURNING
would be emitted unnecessarily within update statements.

fixes #3609

the :class:`.Select` construct would have its ``._raw_columns``
collection mutated in-place when compiling the :class:`.Insert`
construct, when the target :class:`.Table` has Python-side defaults.
The :class:`.Select` construct would compile standalone with the
erroneous column present subsequent to compilation of the
:class:`.Insert`, and the the :class:`.Insert` statement itself would
fail on a second compile attempt due to duplicate bound parameters.
fixes #3603

statement.  This feature is available by passing the
:paramref:`~.sqlalchemy.sql.expression.update.preserve_parameter_order`
flag either to the core :class:`.Update` construct or alternatively
adding it to the :paramref:`.Query.update.update_args` dictionary at
the ORM-level, also passing the parameters themselves as a list of 2-tuples.
Thanks to Gorka Eguileor for implementation and tests.
adapted from pullreq github:200

"auto increment" column has been changed, such that autoincrement
is no longer implicitly enabled for a :class:`.Table` that has a
composite primary key.  In order to accommodate being able to enable
autoincrement for a composite PK member column while at the same time
maintaining SQLAlchemy's long standing behavior of enabling
implicit autoincrement for a single integer primary key, a third
state has been added to the :paramref:`.Column.autoincrement` parameter
``"auto"``, which is now the default. fixes #3216
- The MySQL dialect no longer generates an extra "KEY" directive when
generating CREATE TABLE DDL for a table using InnoDB with a
composite primary key with AUTO_INCREMENT on a column that isn't the
first column;  to overcome InnoDB's limitation here, the PRIMARY KEY
constraint is now generated with the AUTO_INCREMENT column placed
first in the list of columns.

insert statement, :ticket:`3288`, where the column type for the
default-holding column would not be propagated to the compiled
statement in the case where the default was being used,
leading to bind-level type handlers not being invoked.
fixes #3520