kinds of internal column loader options within internal logging.
fixes #3539

the :func:`.orm.load_only` option to cover all attributes not
explicitly mentioned, now takes into account the superclasses
of a given entity, if that entity is mapped with inheritance mapping,
so that attribute names within the superclasses are also omitted
from the load.  Additionally, the polymorphic discriminator column
is unconditionally included in the list, just in the same way that
primary key columns are, so that even with load_only() set up,
polymorphic loading of subtypes continues to function correctly.
fixes #3287

improved in conjunction with loader directives such as
:func:`.joinedload` and :func:`.contains_eager` such that if
two :meth:`.PropComparator.of_type` modifiers of the same
base type/path are encountered, they will be joined together
into a single "polymorphic" entity, rather than replacing
the entity of type A with the one of type B.  E.g.
a joinedload of ``A.b.of_type(BSub1)->BSub1.c`` combined with
joinedload of ``A.b.of_type(BSub2)->BSub2.c`` will create a
single joinedload of ``A.b.of_type((BSub1, BSub2)) -> BSub1.c, BSub2.c``,
without the need for the ``with_polymorphic`` to be explicit
in the query.
fixes #3256

issues

:paramref:`.relationship.innerjoin` is now to use "nested"
inner joins, that is, right-nested, as the default behavior when an
inner join joined eager load is chained to an outer join eager load.
fixes #3008

sqlalchemy/orm, sqlalchemy/event, sqlalchemy/testing

to get all flake8 passing

columns are always added to the list of columns to be "undeferred";
otherwise, the ORM can't load the row's identity.   Apparently,
one can defer the mapped primary keys and the ORM will fail, that
hasn't been changed.  But as load_only is essentially saying
"defer all but X", it's more critical that PK cols not be part of this
deferral. fixes #3080