sqlalchemy/orm, sqlalchemy/event, sqlalchemy/testing

to get all flake8 passing

- rework the event system so that event modules load after their
targets, dependencies are reversed
- create an improved strategy lookup system for the ORM
- rework the ORM to have very few import cycles
- move out "importlater" to just util.dependency
- other tricks to cross-populate modules in as clear a way as possible

provided via the :func:`.event.remove` function.
[ticket:2268]
- reorganization of event.py module into a package; with the addition of the
docstring work as well as the new registry for removal, there's a lot more code now.
the package separates concerns and provides a top-level doc for each subsection
of functionality
- the remove feature works by providing the EventKey object which associates
the user-provided arguments to listen() with a global, weak-referencing registry.
This registry stores a collection of _ListenerCollection and _DispatchDescriptor
objects associated with each set of arguments, as well as the wrapped function
which was applied to that collection.  The EventKey can then be recreated for
a removal, all the _ListenerCollection and _DispatchDescriptor objects are located,
and the correct wrapped function is removed from each one.