sqlalchemy/orm, sqlalchemy/event, sqlalchemy/testing

to get all flake8 passing

of :ticket:`3060` from verision 0.9.5.  A self-referential relationship
with lazy='dynamic' would raise a TypeError within a flush operation.
fixes #3099

didn't match.  use straight memoized_props here for now, add a perf test to check it

- The system of loader options has been entirely rearchitected to build
upon a much more comprehensive base, the :class:`.Load` object.  This
base allows any common loader option like :func:`.joinedload`,
:func:`.defer`, etc. to be used in a "chained" style for the purpose
of specifying options down a path, such as ``joinedload("foo").subqueryload("bar")``.
The new system supersedes the usage of dot-separated path names,
multiple attributes within options, and the usage of ``_all()`` options.
-  Added a new load option :func:`.orm.load_only`.  This allows a series
of column names to be specified as loading "only" those attributes,
deferring the rest.

- rework the event system so that event modules load after their
targets, dependencies are reversed
- create an improved strategy lookup system for the ORM
- rework the ORM to have very few import cycles
- move out "importlater" to just util.dependency
- other tricks to cross-populate modules in as clear a way as possible

the import structure of many core modules.
``sqlalchemy.schema`` and ``sqlalchemy.types``
remain in the top-level package, but are now just lists of names
that pull from within ``sqlalchemy.sql``.  Their implementations
are now broken out among ``sqlalchemy.sql.type_api``, ``sqlalchemy.sql.sqltypes``,
``sqlalchemy.sql.schema`` and ``sqlalchemy.sql.ddl``, the last of which was
moved from ``sqlalchemy.engine``.  ``sqlalchemy.sql.expression`` is also
a namespace now which pulls implementations mostly from ``sqlalchemy.sql.elements``,
``sqlalchemy.sql.selectable``, and ``sqlalchemy.sql.dml``.
Most of the "factory" functions
used to create SQL expression objects have been moved to classmethods
or constructors, which are exposed in ``sqlalchemy.sql.expression``
using a programmatic system.  Care has been taken such that all the
original import namespaces remain intact and there should be no impact
on any existing applications.   The rationale here was to break out these
very large modules into smaller ones, provide more manageable lists
of function names, to greatly reduce "import cycles" and clarify the
up-front importing of names, and to remove the need for redundant
functions and documentation throughout the expression package.

:class:`.AttributeImpl` as an "initiator" token has been changed;
the object is now an event-specific object called :class:`.attributes.Event`.
Additionally, the attribute system no longer halts events based
on a matching "initiator" token; this logic has been moved to be
specific to ORM backref event handlers, which are the typical source
of the re-propagation of an attribute event onto subsequent append/set/remove
operations.  End user code which emulates the behavior of backrefs
must now ensure that recursive event propagation schemes are halted,
if the scheme does not use the backref handlers.   Using this new system,
backref handlers can now peform a
"two-hop" operation when an object is appended to a collection,
associated with a new many-to-one, de-associated with the previous
many-to-one, and then removed from a previous collection.   Before this
change, the last step of removal from the previous collection would
not occur.
[ticket:2789]