back_populates while still maintaining great familiarity
w/ backref so as not to confuse people.  fixes #3390

sqlalchemy/orm, sqlalchemy/event, sqlalchemy/testing

to get all flake8 passing

be used to manufacture objects that behave as though they were loaded
from a session, then detached.   Attributes that aren't present
are marked as expired, and the object can be added to a Session
where it will act like a persistent one. fix #3017

- The system of loader options has been entirely rearchitected to build
upon a much more comprehensive base, the :class:`.Load` object.  This
base allows any common loader option like :func:`.joinedload`,
:func:`.defer`, etc. to be used in a "chained" style for the purpose
of specifying options down a path, such as ``joinedload("foo").subqueryload("bar")``.
The new system supersedes the usage of dot-separated path names,
multiple attributes within options, and the usage of ``_all()`` options.
-  Added a new load option :func:`.orm.load_only`.  This allows a series
of column names to be specified as loading "only" those attributes,
deferring the rest.

of groups of column expressions to a :class:`.Query` construct.
The group of columns are returned as a single tuple by default.  The
behavior of :class:`.Bundle` can be overridden however to provide
any sort of result processing to the returned row.  One example included
is :attr:`.Composite.Comparator.bundle`, which applies a bundled form
of a "composite" mapped attribute.
[ticket:2824]
- The :func:`.composite` construct now maintains the return object
when used in a column-oriented :class:`.Query`, rather than expanding
out into individual columns.  This makes use of the new :class:`.Bundle`
feature internally.  This behavior is backwards incompatible; to
select from a composite column which will expand out, use
``MyClass.some_composite.clauses``.

- rework the event system so that event modules load after their
targets, dependencies are reversed
- create an improved strategy lookup system for the ORM
- rework the ORM to have very few import cycles
- move out "importlater" to just util.dependency
- other tricks to cross-populate modules in as clear a way as possible

the import structure of many core modules.
``sqlalchemy.schema`` and ``sqlalchemy.types``
remain in the top-level package, but are now just lists of names
that pull from within ``sqlalchemy.sql``.  Their implementations
are now broken out among ``sqlalchemy.sql.type_api``, ``sqlalchemy.sql.sqltypes``,
``sqlalchemy.sql.schema`` and ``sqlalchemy.sql.ddl``, the last of which was
moved from ``sqlalchemy.engine``.  ``sqlalchemy.sql.expression`` is also
a namespace now which pulls implementations mostly from ``sqlalchemy.sql.elements``,
``sqlalchemy.sql.selectable``, and ``sqlalchemy.sql.dml``.
Most of the "factory" functions
used to create SQL expression objects have been moved to classmethods
or constructors, which are exposed in ``sqlalchemy.sql.expression``
using a programmatic system.  Care has been taken such that all the
original import namespaces remain intact and there should be no impact
on any existing applications.   The rationale here was to break out these
very large modules into smaller ones, provide more manageable lists
of function names, to greatly reduce "import cycles" and clarify the
up-front importing of names, and to remove the need for redundant
functions and documentation throughout the expression package.