to the new MutableList and MutableSet classes, fixes #3297

from https://bitbucket.org/zzzeek/sqlalchemy/issues/3297

that this structure is only intended to track additions
and removals from the dictionary, not recursive tracking
of embedded changes.  fixes #3646.

where the "default" argument was not included.
fixes #3605

to the :class:`.mutable.MutableDict` class.
fixes #3605

as a result of the bugfix for :ticket:`3167`,
where attribute and validation events are no longer
called within the flush process.  The mutable
extension was relying upon this behavior in the case where a column
level Python-side default were responsible for generating the new value
on INSERT or UPDATE, or when a value were fetched from the RETURNING
clause for "eager defaults" mode.  The new value would not be subject
to any event when populated and the mutable extension could not
establish proper coercion or history listening.  A new event
:meth:`.InstanceEvents.refresh_flush` is added which the mutable
extension now makes use of for this use case.
fixes #3427
- Added new event :meth:`.InstanceEvents.refresh_flush`, invoked
when an INSERT or UPDATE level default value fetched via RETURNING
or Python-side default is invoked within the flush process.  This
is to provide a hook that is no longer present as a result of
:ticket:`3167`, where attribute and validation events are no longer
called within the flush process.
- Added a new semi-public method to :class:`.MutableBase`
:meth:`.MutableBase._get_listen_keys`.  Overriding this method
is needed in the case where a :class:`.MutableBase` subclass needs
events to propagate for attribute keys other than the key to which
the mutable type is associated with, when intercepting the
:meth:`.InstanceEvents.refresh` or
:meth:`.InstanceEvents.refresh_flush` events.  The current example of
this is composites using :class:`.MutableComposite`.