back by using an attrgetter for the default case

This supports the use case of an application that uses the same set of
:class:`.Table` objects in many schemas, such as schema-per-user.
A new execution option
:paramref:`.Connection.execution_options.schema_translate_map` is
added. fixes #2685
- latest tox doesn't like the {posargs} in the profile rerunner

be stated in the query string for a URL.   Custom plugins can
be written which will be given the chance up front to alter and/or
consume the engine's URL and keyword arguments, and then at engine
create time will be given the engine itself to allow additional
modifications or event registration.  Plugins are written as a
subclass of :class:`.CreateEnginePlugin`; see that class for
details.
fixes #3536

the URL design a little simpler

:meth:`.URL.get_dialect` method will continue to return the
ultimate :class:`.Dialect` object when a dialect plugin is used,
without the need for the caller to be aware of the
:meth:`.Dialect.get_dialect_cls` method.
reference #3379

functionality.   Added a new "soft invalidate" feature to the
connection pool at the level of the checked out connection wrapper
as well as the :class:`._ConnectionRecord`.  This works similarly
to a modern pool invalidation in that connections aren't actively
closed, but are recycled only on next checkout; this is essentially
a per-connection version of that feature.  A new event
:class:`.PoolEvents.soft_invalidate` is added to complement it.
fixes #3379

- Added new flag
:attr:`.ExceptionContext.invalidate_pool_on_disconnect`.
Allows an error handler within :meth:`.ConnectionEvents.handle_error`
to maintain a "disconnect" condition, but to handle calling invalidate
on individual connections in a specific manner within the event.

- Added new event :class:`.DialectEvents.do_connect`, which allows
interception / replacement of when the :meth:`.Dialect.connect`
hook is called to create a DBAPI connection.  Also added
dialect plugin hooks :meth:`.Dialect.get_dialect_cls` and
:meth:`.Dialect.engine_created` which allow external plugins to
add events to existing dialects using entry points.
fixes #3355

take effect in all engine connection use cases, including
when user-custom connect routines are used via the
:paramref:`.create_engine.creator` parameter, as well as when
the :class:`.Connection` encounters a connection error on
revalidation.
fixes #3266

that union() can be called, in the case of a dialect that uses
execution options inside of initialize() (e.g. oursql)