Posgtresql -> PostgreSQL

If there is a closed attribute on the connection and
it is true, return true. Implements a todo in the code
and helps in one specific disconnect case where it previously
did not match because the error message was "unknown error".

Removed ungrammatical apostrophes from documentation, replacing
"it's" with "its" where appropriate (but in a few cases with "it is"
when that read better).

While doing that, I also fixed a couple of minor typos etc.
as I noticed them.

Found using: https://github.com/intgr/topy

it for DELETE would fail to target the correct row for DELETE.
Then to compound matters, basic "number of rows matched" checks were
not being performed.  Both issues are fixed, however note that the
"rows matched" check requires so-called "sane multi-row count"
functionality; the DBAPI's executemany() method must count up the
rows matched by individual statements and SQLAlchemy's dialect must
mark this feature as supported, currently applies to some mysql dialects,
psycopg2, sqlite only. fixes #3006
- Enabled "sane multi-row count" checking for the psycopg2 DBAPI, as
this seems to be supported as of psycopg2 2.0.9.