"auto", doesn't matter if there's a default here

symbols with names quoted to force all-lower-case would not be
identified properly in reflection queries.  The :class:`.quoted_name`
construct is now applied to incoming symbol names that detect as
forced into all-lower-case within the "name normalize" process.
fixes #3548

- replace force_result_map with a mini-API for nested result sets, add
coverage

The "wrapping" employed by the mssql and oracle dialects using the
"iswrapper" argument was not being used intelligently by the compiler,
and the result map was being written incorrectly, using
*more* columns in the result map than were actually returned by
the statement, due to "row number" columns that are inside the
subquery.   The compiler now writes out result map on the
"top level" select in all cases
fully, and for the mssql/oracle wrapping case extracts out
the "proxied" columns in a second step, which only includes
those columns that are proxied outwards to the top level.

This change might have implications for 3rd party dialects that
might be imitating oracle's approach.   They can safely continue
to use the "iswrapper" kw which is now ignored, but they may
need to also add the _select_wraps argument as well.

such that they are matched to the received result set positionally,
rather than by name.  Originally, this was seen as a way to handle
cases where we had columns returned with difficult-to-predict names,
though in modern use that issue has been overcome by anonymous
labeling.   In this version, the approach basically reduces function
call count per-result by a few dozen calls, or more for larger
sets of result columns.  The approach still degrades into a modern
version of the old approach if textual elements modify the result
map, or if any discrepancy in size exists between
the compiled set of columns versus what was received, so there's no
issue for partially or fully textual compilation scenarios where these
lists might not line up.  fixes #918
- callcounts still need to be adjusted down for this so zoomark
tests won't pass at the moment

now be constructed such that the visit methods receive an indication
of the owning expression object, if any.  Any visit method that
accepts keyword arguments (e.g. ``**kw``) will in most cases
receive a keyword argument ``type_expression``, referring to the
expression object that the type is contained within.  For columns
in DDL, the dialect's compiler class may need to alter its
``get_column_specification()`` method to support this as well.
The ``UserDefinedType.get_col_spec()`` method will also receive
``type_expression`` if it provides ``**kw`` in its argument
signature.
fixes #3074

Patch courtesy Gabor Gombas.
fixes #3127