- add language to MATCH explicitly stating this operator varies by backend and is not available
on SQLite, as the tutorial defaults to SQLite to start with, fix #3059
- on the actual match() documentation fix this up to be more accurate, list some example renderings
for different backends.  again mention SQLite not supported

Removed ungrammatical apostrophes from documentation, replacing
"it's" with "its" where appropriate (but in a few cases with "it is"
when that read better).

While doing that, I also fixed a couple of minor typos etc.
as I noticed them.

Found using: https://github.com/intgr/topy

a join condition that is strictly from a single column to itself,
translated through some kind of SQL function or expression.  This
is kind of experimental, but the first proof of concept is a
"materialized path" join condition where a path string is compared
to itself using "like".   The :meth:`.Operators.like` operator has
also been added to the list of valid operators to use in a primaryjoin
condition.  fixes #3029