* ALPN: complete handshake without accepting a client's protocols.

The callback passed to `SSL_CTX_set_alpn_select_cb` can return
`SSL_TLSEXT_ERR_NOACK` to allow the handshake to continue without
accepting any of the client's offered protocols.

This commit introduces `NO_OVERLAPPING_PROTOCOLS`, which the Python
callback passed to `Context.set_alpn_select_callback` can return to
achieve the same thing.

It does not change the previous meaning of an empty string, which
still terminates the handshake.

* Update src/OpenSSL/SSL.py

Co-Authored-By: Alex Gaynor <alex.gaynor@gmail.com>

* Address @alex's review.

* Use recorded value in test, fix lint error.

* Cover TypeError branch in _ALPNHelper.callback

* use _ffi.from_buffer(buf) in send, to support bytearray

* add bytearray test

* update CHANGELOG.rst

* move from_buffer before 'buffer too long' check

* context-managed from_buffer + black

* don't shadow buf in send()

* test return count for sendall

* test sending an array

* fix test

* also use from_buffer in bio_write

* de-format _util.py

* formatting

* add simple bio_write tests

* wrap line

* Expose OP_NO_TLSv1_3

* Support openssl <1.1.1

* Deprecated NPN

* arithmetic is hard

* oops

* oops

* Raise an Error with "no cipher match" even with TLS 1.3

This makes Twisted's OpenSSLAcceptableCiphers.fromOpenSSLCipherString
and seamlessly work with TLS 1.3:

https://github.com/twisted/twisted/pull/1100/files/a5df2fb373ac67b0e3032acc9291ae88dfd0b3b1#diff-df501bac724aab523150498f84749b88R1767

* Split TestContext.test_set_cipher_list_wrong_args into two tests.