also fix index_stats table.

followup for 5a798071199

use check_grant(..., number_of_tables=1, ...) if you only need
to check privileges for one table

This was done in, among other things:
- thd->db and thd->db_length
- TABLE_LIST tablename, db, alias and schema_name
- Audit plugin database name
- lex->db
- All db and table names in Alter_table_ctx
- st_select_lex db

Other things:
- Changed a lot of functions to take const LEX_CSTRING* as argument
  for db, table_name and alias. See init_one_table() as an example.
- Changed some function arguments from LEX_CSTRING to const LEX_CSTRING
- Changed some lists from LEX_STRING to LEX_CSTRING
- threads_mysql.result changed because process list_db wasn't always
  correctly updated
- New append_identifier() function that takes LEX_CSTRING* as arguments
- Added new element tmp_buff to Alter_table_ctx to separate temp name
  handling from temporary space
- Ensure we store the length after my_casedn_str() of table/db names
- Removed not used version of rename_table_in_stat_tables()
- Changed Natural_join_column::table_name and db_name() to never return
  NULL (used for print)
- thd->get_db() now returns db as a printable string (thd->db.str or "")

- Added sql/mariadb.h file that should be included first by files in sql
  directory, if sql_plugin.h is not used (sql_plugin.h adds SHOW variables
  that must be done before my_global.h is included)
- Removed a lot of include my_global.h from include files
- Removed include's of some files that my_global.h automatically includes
- Removed duplicated include's of my_sys.h
- Replaced include my_config.h with my_global.h