Move to the `git_error` name in the internal API for error-related
functions.

Fallback describes the mechanism, while unspecified explains what the
user is thinking.

This lets us specify in the status call which ignore rules we want to
use (optionally falling back to whatever the submodule has in its
configuration).

This removes one of the reasons for having `_set_ignore()` set the value
in-memory. We re-use the `IGNORE_RESET` value for this as it is no
longer relevant but has a similar purpose to `IGNORE_FALLBACK`.

Similarly, we remove `IGNORE_DEFAULT` which does not have use outside of
initializers and move that to fall back to the configuration as well.

Introduce a new binary diff callback to provide the actual binary
delta contents to callers.  Create this data from the diff contents
(instead of directly from the ODB) to support binary diffs including
the workdir, not just things coming out of the ODB.

Since git_diff_init_options was introduced, remove this old fn.