Support git attrs from index (and bare repo)

Honor core.notesRef config option

There are three changes here:
- correctly propogate error code from failed object lookups
- make zlib inflate use our allocators
- add OID to notfound error in ODB lookups

Depending on the operation, we need to consider gitattributes
in both the work dir and the index.  This adds a parameter to
all of the gitattributes related functions that allows user
control of attribute reading behavior (i.e. prefer workdir,
prefer index, only use index).

This fix also covers allowing us to check attributes (and
hence do diff and status) on bare repositories.

This was a somewhat larger change that I hoped because it had
to change the cache key used for gitattributes files.

Add git_note_default_ref to allow easy retrieval of the currently set
default notes reference.

Setting core.notesRef allows to change the default notes reference used
by Git. Check if set before using GIT_NOTES_DEFAULT_REF. Fixes #649.