Add the `GIT_OPT_ENABLE_UNSAVED_INDEX_SAFETY` option, which will cause
commands that reload the on-disk index to fail if the current
`git_index` has changed that have not been saved.  This will prevent
users from - for example - adding a file to the index then calling a
function like `git_checkout` and having that file be silently removed
from the index since it was re-read from disk.

Now calls that would re-read the index will fail if the index is
"dirty", meaning changes have been made to it but have not been written.
Users can either `git_index_read` to discard those changes explicitly,
or `git_index_write` to write them.

Tie in the newly created infrastructure for swapping out memory
allocators into our settings code. A user can now simply use the new
option "GIT_OPT_SET_ALLOCATOR" with `git_libgit2_opts`, passing in an
already initialized allocator structure as vararg.

Next to including several files, our "common.h" header also declares
various macros which are then used throughout the project. As such, we
have to make sure to always include this file first in all
implementation files. Otherwise, we might encounter problems or even
silent behavioural differences due to macros or defines not being
defined as they should be. So in fact, our header and implementation
files should make sure to always include "common.h" first.

This commit does so by establishing a common include pattern. Header
files inside of "src" will now always include "common.h" as its first
other file, separated by a newline from all the other includes to make
it stand out as special. There are two cases for the implementation
files. If they do have a matching header file, they will always include
this one first, leading to "common.h" being transitively included as
first file. If they do not have a matching header file, they instead
include "common.h" as first file themselves.

This fixes the outlined problems and will become our standard practice
for header and source files inside of the "src/" from now on.