Next to including several files, our "common.h" header also declares
various macros which are then used throughout the project. As such, we
have to make sure to always include this file first in all
implementation files. Otherwise, we might encounter problems or even
silent behavioural differences due to macros or defines not being
defined as they should be. So in fact, our header and implementation
files should make sure to always include "common.h" first.

This commit does so by establishing a common include pattern. Header
files inside of "src" will now always include "common.h" as its first
other file, separated by a newline from all the other includes to make
it stand out as special. There are two cases for the implementation
files. If they do have a matching header file, they will always include
this one first, leading to "common.h" being transitively included as
first file. If they do not have a matching header file, they instead
include "common.h" as first file themselves.

This fixes the outlined problems and will become our standard practice
for header and source files inside of the "src/" from now on.

This significantly reduces contention when many threads are trying to
read from the cache simultaneously.

This adds create and free callback to the git_objects_table so
that more of the creation and destruction of objects can be table
driven instead of using switch statements.  This also makes the
semantics of certain object creation functions consistent so that
we can make better use of function pointers.  This also fixes a
theoretical error case where an object allocation fails and we
end up storing NULL into the cache.

Add a git_cache_set_max_object_size method that does more checking
around setting the max object size.  Also add a git_cache_size to
read the number of objects currently in the cache.  This makes it
easier to write tests.