After 1cd65991, we were passing a pointer to an `unsigned long` to
a function that now expected a pointer to a `size_t`.  These types
differ on 64-bit Windows, which means that we trash the stack.

Use `size_t`s in the packbuilder to avoid this.

This function recursively inserts the given object and any referenced
ones. It can be thought of as a more general version of the functions to
insert a commit or tree.

Most use-cases for the object packer communicate in terms of commits
which each side has. We already have an object to specify this
relationship between commits, namely git_revwalk.

By knowing which commits we want to pack and which the other side
already has, we can perform similar optimisations to git, by marking
each tree as interesting or uninteresting only once, and not sending
those trees which we know the other side has.

This adds tests that try canceling an indexer operation from
within the progress callback.

After writing the tests, I wanted to run this under valgrind and
had a number of errors in that situation because mmap wasn't
working.  I added a CMake option to force emulation of mmap and
consolidated the Amiga-specific code into that new place (so we
don't actually need separate Amiga code now, just have to turn on
-DNO_MMAP).

Additionally, I made the indexer code propagate error codes more
reliably than it used to.

This commit adds cancellation for the push operation. This work consists of:

1) Support cancellation during push operation
    - During object counting phase
    - During network transfer phase
        - Propagate GIT_EUSER error code out to caller
2) Improve cancellation support during fetch
    - Handle cancellation request during network transfer phase
    - Clear error string when cancelled during indexing
3) Fix error handling in git_smart__download_pack

Cancellation during push is still only handled in the pack building and
network transfer stages of push (and not during packbuilding).