patch: emit deflated binary patches (optionally)

This takes the `--stat` and related example options in the example
diff.c program and converts them to use the `git_diff_get_stats`
API which nicely formats stats for you.

I went to add bar-graph scaling to the stats formatter and noticed
that the `git_diff_stats` structure was holding on to all of the
`git_patch` objects.  Unfortunately, each of these objects keeps
the full text of the diff in memory, so this is very expensive.  I
ended up modifying `git_diff_stats` to keep just the data that it
needs to keep and allowed it to release the patches.  Then, I added
width scaling to the output on top of that.

In making the diff example program match 'git diff' output, I ended
up removing an newline from the sumamry output which I then had to
compensate for in the email formatting to match the expectations.

Lastly, I went through and refactored the tests to use a couple of
helper functions and reduce the overall amount of code there.

I was playing with "git diff-index" and wanted to be able to
emulate that behavior a little more closely with the diff example.

Also, I wanted to play with running `git_diff_tree_to_workdir`
directly even though core Git doesn't exactly have the equivalent,
so I added a command line option for that and tweaked some other
things in the example code.

This changes a minor output thing in that the "raw" print helper
function will no longer add ellipses (...) if the OID is not
actually abbreviated.

The basic structure of each function is courtesy of arrbee.

This adds `git_diff_buffers` and `git_patch_from_buffers`.  This
also includes a bunch of internal refactoring to increase the
shared code between these functions and the blob-to-blob and
blob-to-buffer APIs, as well as some higher level assert helpers
in the tests to also remove redundancy.

Same as the other commits in the series, we use 'id' when talking about
thing rather than the datatype.

In the same vein as the previous commits in this series.