Since we now always build the library with cdecl calling conventions,
our callbacks should be decorated as such so that users will not be able
to provide callbacks defined with other calling conventions.

The `GIT_CALLBACK` macro will inject the `__cdecl` attribute as
appropriate.

Introduce a callback to patch application that allows consumers to
cancel hunk application.

Introduce a callback to the application options that allow callers to
add a per-delta callback.  The callback can return an error code to stop
patch application, or can return a value to skip the application of a
particular delta.

Move the location option to an argument, out of the options structure.
This allows the options structure to be re-used for functions that don't
need to know the location, since it's implicit in their functionality.
For example, `git_apply_tree` should not take a location, but is
expected to take all the other options.

Introduce `git_apply`, which will take a `git_diff` and apply it to the
working directory (akin to `git apply`), the index (akin to `git apply
--cached`), or both (akin to `git apply --index`).

Introduce `git_apply_tree`, which will apply a `git_diff` to a given
`git_tree`, allowing an in-memory patch application for a repository.