- Group / project members cannot request access
- Group members cannot request access to a group's project

This addresses an issue where project owners could request access
to their own project, leading to UI inconsistency where their requester
status would replace their owner status.

Signed-off-by: Rémy Coutable <remy@rymai.me>

Exclude requesters from Project#members, Group#members and User#members

## What does this MR do?

It excludes requesters from the `Project#members`, `Group#members` and `User#members` associations, and adds new `Project#requesters` and `Group#requesters` associations.

## Are there points in the code the reviewer needs to double check?

No.

## Why was this MR needed?

Without this, if you call `project.members`, requesters are included in the results! This is at best misleading, and at worst can lead to security issues. By excluding requesters from the `#members` associations, we avoid introducing security inadvertently since you have to call the `#requesters` association explicitly to get requesters.

## What are the relevant issue numbers?

This is something I realized while fixing the security issue #19102.

## Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

- [x] I don't think this needs a CHANGELOG since this is an internal change
- Tests
  - [x] Added for this feature/bug
  - [ ] All builds are passing
- [x] Conform by the [style guides](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING.md#style-guides)
- [x] Branch has no merge conflicts with `master` (if you do - rebase it please)
- [x] [Squashed related commits together](https://git-scm.com/book/en/Git-Tools-Rewriting-History#Squashing-Commits)

See merge request !4946

And create new Project#requesters, Group#requesters scopes.

Signed-off-by: Rémy Coutable <remy@rymai.me>

In #19273, we saw that retrieving ProjectTeam#human_max_access for each
note takes the bulk of the time when rendering certain issues or merge requests.
We observe that most of the comments in an issue are typically done by the
same users. This MR memoizes the max access level by user ID.

Removes un-used method
Fixes other Ruby issues