Fix examples to make the important stuff more obvious

The latter is not available on Windows

This reorganizes a few of the examples so that the main function
comes first with the argument parsing extracted into a helper
that can come at the end of the file (so the example focuses more
on the use of libgit2 instead of command line support).  This also
creates a shared examples/common.[ch] so that useful helper funcs
can be shared across examples instead of repeated.

Instead of having functions with so very many parameters to pass
hunk and line data, this takes the existing git_diff_hunk struct
and extends it with more hunk data, plus adds a git_diff_line.
Those structs are used to pass back hunk and line data instead of
the old APIs that took tons of parameters.

Some work that was previously only being done for git_diff_patch
creation (scanning the diff content for exact line counts) is now
done for all callbacks, but the performance difference should not
be noticable.